Category: the Rant Board
Hey, don't mind me... just having a winge... I am just so tired of people who say they are your friend, then you find out they are only using you for something!!!
It drives me crazy how people use other people until they get whatever it is that they want, then that is all.. friendship over.. ROAR!!!
I know someone like that. They just keep asking people to help them but not offering to help or do anything else with the person they keep using to help them. I would probably find that really annoying.
oh god. i hate when that happens.
That is our nature I guess. It sucks that's for sure.
I know that feeling. Those are some of the worst people of all time. Those are the people that don't deserve kindness not to sound harsh but that's how I feel about backstabbers.
Yeah, I've been in a similar situation where someone faked being my friend, then started annoying me and acting very imaturely around me, thinking I took it lying down which I did to a certain extent, but I dropped them soon after I started secondary School.
Jen.
actually the same thing happened to me as wel. this girl pretended to be my friend. then she would ask to use my phone to phone all kinds of guys, she would leave me at church to go have sex with a few different guys. she was also a prescription drug adict. well my sister wanted her dead for doing something to me which i will not mention here. now she is actually dead. she was partying with 5 others. a gang of 4 people broke into the house where she was partying, and beat all 6 occupants to death. the bodies were only recognizable by their dental records that is how bad they were beaten. just to let u guys know. my sister was not involved in any way with plotting or carrying out the murders. she called me one night to tell me that the girl was dead that she saw it on the news. i started to cry even though i disliked the girl for what she did to me. and my sister says. do not worry, she will never hurt you again.
She sounded like a real psychotic whore.
Um, wow.
wow I guess karma cought up to this girl.
Yeah, she got her just desserts. Not that I think her death was a good thing but...life has a funny way of biting you in the ass.
no doubt. i guess she got what was coming to her even though i know that it sounds cruel.
she actually treated her sister like shit as well. she constantly yelled and screamed at her.
that's fucked.
yeah, thats crazy
So many people gossip about each other and then act nice in front of them. It's pretty disturbing when you actually think about it. It takes me months to let a new person close to me because so many people have only wanted me around for what they could use me for. Sometimes people just need somebody to pick on and I was dumb enough to take it. I have learned that very few people are honest in this world anymore. I haven't found one guy that just wanted to be with me with no strings attached and very few girls that just wanted to be my friend without getting any favors. I wish that people were more nice to each other. I am dreaming...
yes. same here.
I love Karma. And I'm sorry but, I find enormous pleasure from seeing people getting what they deserve coming to them.
Alot of people hurt others, uses them on a day to day basis and think very little or nothing of it. My problem is not only with the person doing it but, with those that are allowing it to be done to them. There are many people like that and hell, I speak once only and then I sit back and smile. Time is one of the best teachers; just a pitty that he usually kills his students. lol.
I had a friend who was involved with this girl. She use to flirt with all the guys at work, making sure that she drove people wild and all the time telling him how she loves him. One day he walked in on her busy getting it on with one of his friends. He just turned around and walked out. And yes, her day arrived as well. She got raped and was subsequently merdered.
Be careful, very careful how you treat people. It will come back to you, if not today or tomorrow but, rest assured that you will be rewarded for your actions.
yes, carma or what ever you call it will give you a swift kick in the ass. The only question is when!
I know what you mean about takeing time to get close to people, I have had some bad experiances there so, It takes me a while to warm up to people.
Isn't it sad how people use and dump people like a bottle of coke. (drink the coke and leave the litter for someone else to pick up) It would be nice to have a relationship with no strings attached to! I think relationships are truely more meaningful when you can get to know the person for who they are.
Couldn't agree more with post 19.
The fact is that when one settles for less, that's exactly what you'll get. So, if your man or woman is hurting you, deceiving you and not playing fair and you know it, walk out of the relationship. "It's not easy", I can almost herar you say but, hell, who said life was easy. Standing back from your situation and being truthful to yourself is one of the most difficult things to do but, from experience I can tell you that it's one of the most rewarding acts.
Remember that there is that special person out there for you, hoping for you to find him or her and by you staying in a relationship that is not fruitful and that impacts negatively on your life, you are not only denying yourself happiness and bliss but, you are denying that other special someone what they really need.
Wooh. I'm done now.
Ok, as much as I do agree with posts 18, 19 and 20, I just have two points to make...
The first one, is, not everyone here, is talking about relationships. My original post, was based on friends in general.
And, also, I understand the part about not liking people who use others, but as for the people being used, do you think they do it on purpose? sometimes, the person doing the using, makes it not so obvious, so the other person thinks the other one is, being a true friend...trust me, it happens, and there are people who are good at it.
There are also people who are good at being naive. They are usually the ones who knows it all and who hates it when friends wants to give them advise.
I also hold the Ancient African belief that serious relationships are built on the strong foundation of real and true friendships. but, hell, I guess that we're now living in the modern times. LMFAO. SO, let's seperate one from the other.